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Mistake I MAY have made in getting rid of a problem causing gym member

Tuesday, January 4th, 2011

Mistake I may have made in getting rid of a problem causing gym member

I woke early one morning by a phone call from my gym manager saying i needed to come in soon and call this lady about a guy that scared her really bad the night before.

I got to the gym and called her and she began to tell me about what she called a “perv” she had seen the night before in the gym while working out , but she said she knew the guy through her dad that owned a business a few years before and this guy worked for her dad.

she said this guy used to always act like a perv and when he saw her in the gym he started harassing her and cussing to her about sex and other things, i should tell you that we are a christian gym, not pushy, but people know we don’t allow cussing in there. we just have a few christian symbols around and prayer boxes. so this guy knew better

then she said she went to the gym locker room to get her clothes and leave because she had enough of his asking her to go out and get drinks after she told him repeatedly she was married.

when she came out of the gym locker room and started to walk for the door, he yelled her name across the gym and while he was laying on a bench, he grabbed his private through his shorts and shook it at her.

I have a camera system and reviewed it and saw him talking to her but couldnt see him grab himself, but he was laying on the bench like she said, but the angle of the benches view was blocked by a cable machine.

my manager then told me about two more women he said were harassed by this man. he kept asking them out and they had to tell him many times that they were married and his response was to tell them “married people need to eat too”.

It didn’t look like this guy was getting the hint did it?

We’ll I talked to my wife and she agreed that if he was doing that then the only choice we had was to cancel his membership and refund some of his money.

Here’s where i MAY have made a mistake by jumping the gun before i called the other women involved to get their story.

Before i called him i asked my wife what i needed to say because i’m not very diplomatic with words.

Here’s what the conversation would have sounded like from my mind to my mouth:

Hi *****, i have had women telling me your hounding them like its spring break in high school, and they say your a pervert. I’m canceling your membership and refunding your last months dues, don’t come back or you’ll be arrested, bye.

Now here’s what the conversation sounded like from my wife’s mouth then from mine:

Hi *******, this is ****** at the gym. I hate to have to make this call, but i have had quite a few complaints from women members saying your harassing them and frankly, they are kind of fearful because your coming on too strong. I have no choice but to cancel your membership and refund your last months dues. I really don’t want to do this but have no choice, i hope you understand, i know you probably didn’t realize that you were doing it, I’m sure you were trying to be nice but it was taken wrong, but i cant have someone in here that uses foul language and makes gesture like that, it sends a bad message to our members that that’s acceptable, I’m very sorry, i wish you the best.

Doesn’t that sound better?

He was very apologetic about the incident, and got very emotional, but accepted the outcome graciously.

Then the mistake MAY have happened. One of the ladies that my manager told me accused the guy of hitting on called my wife and said the guys friend called her and asked if he offended her in any way by asking her out. She told my wife that he did ask her out but after she told him she was married he respected her and never mentioned it again.

My manager told me a different story, he said the lady said he wouldn’t quit bothering her. Then there was one more lady my gym manager said he saw the guy approach and he said something to her and she got off the bike she was on and left the gym.

I didn’t talk to the third lady, my manager said he didn’t know her name and hasn’t seen her since that incident.

The guys workout partner came in that afternoon and wanted to talk with me and my wife. he said he wanted to cancel because his friend was his workout partner and he was going to have to go with him to another gym, and he wanted to tell us that he was there the night before when the incident happened.

He said there was two sides to this story, which i pretty much knew but with two other ladies having issues also, it confirmed what needed to be done, or did it?

He said he didn’t think we knew it but the woman and the guy actually had a affair going on a few years back and the guy was trying to ask her out because he thought they might hook back up. he said the woman didn’t seem offended at all, she was joking back with him. he said the guy does act like a teenager about women sometimes, but it wasn’t like she said it was.

I told him if the guy would have done this outside the  gym it would be of no concern to me, but he did it in the gym, and i couldn’t have him doing stuff like and talking like that in my gym.

He understood, but he cancelled anyway, and i had to write a $450 refund check because he paid up front, i could have told him no and made him honor his contract, but i cant do that to anyone. Never make someone stay or pay for a service they don’t want in a case like this, they’ll talk bad about you and you WILL lose business i promise.

Then there’s 2 more members that joined because of him and they now will quit they said. so after talking to the other lady that said she wasn’t offended like my ,manager said, i now believe the first woman may have exaggerated a lot to get back at an old flame, and i think this because she left out the key piece of evidence that they had an affair, and she said that he was always a pervert from the time she met him, but she had an affair with him anyway. It doesn’t add up.

He was, in the end hitting on all the women in the gym it seems. I believe i did the right thing, but just as with George W Bush’s decisions, i guess history will have to decide if i did the right thing. I just guess i’ll have to hope mine turns out to be the Ronald Regan Decisions.

The point of this true story. Wait and interview all persons involved before making any rash decisions.

Shannon Cook can be reached at shannoncook902@gmail.com

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How to Start and/or Build a 24 hour Fully Automated Fitness Center, Gym, or Health Club from scratch, including quality exercise equipment, tanning beds, gym software, 24 hour access system, security system, and office equipment, just like I did

Tuesday, March 2nd, 2010

How to Start and/or Build a 24 hour Fully Automated Fitness Center, Gym, or Health Club from scratch, including quality exercise equipment, tanning beds, gym software, 24 hour access system, security system, and office equipment, just like I did

Learn from Shannon Cook, a current gym owner, former general contractor, commercial building landlord, and Fitness Marketing Consultant, how to go from your IDEA to the Grand Opening of your Fitness Center.

Also, how to convert an existing gym into a 24 hour fitness center by installing a 24 hour automated door access system, 911 system, and security cameras, and if that’s not enough, the gym door access system comes with a gym and fitness center management software system

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Why listen to me?

Because I did everything wrong before I did anything right. Fortunately I stuck with it and found some very successful businessmen to guide me, then innovated by turning my gym into a 24 hour fully automated gym, then spent over $15,000 to learn marketing the old fashioned way.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

First off, I’ll teach you how I took my gym from 50 members to over 300 in less than 3 months and exactly what I did and still do to make my little back woods gym one of the best known in my town.

Then you’ll learn;

HOW TO:

  • Research and Decide what kind of gym you want to open, from a 24 hour automated fitness center like the very popular 24 hour fitness and snap fitness, to a women’s only gym     
  • Incorporating or LLC?
  • Partnerships 
  • Franchise
  • Buy an Existing Club
  • Business Plan and Executive Summary
  •  Writing the Plan  
  •  Funding your Start up                                            
  •  Accounting for every dollar, for success             
  •  Naming your Gym   
  •  Becoming a Spy                                                     
  •  Location, Location, Location   
  •  Electrical
  •  Lighting 
  •  Air Conditioner and Heat Electrical needs           
  • Cable or Satellite hook up                                     
  • Phone service                                                         
  • Negotiating the Lease                                             
  • Choosing signage for Marketing your Gym          
  • Painting the interior of your gym                           
  • Insurance
  • Plans Drawn up for the building                            
  • The Build out                                                           
  • Getting the Permit for the Build out                       
  • Mirrors
  • Gym Equipment                                                      
  • Parts for gym equipment                                        
  • Flooring
  • Pro Shop Vendors                                                    
  • Office Equipment                                                      
  • Security System                                                        
  • Automated Door Access System                            
  • Gym Management Software                                      
  • Energy Efficiency in your building                          
  • Motion Switches for Lighting                                   
  • Ceiling Fans                                                               
  • Sound Systems and Cardio Theaters                     
  • Electronic Funds Transfer, (EFT) Bank Draft           
  • Accepting Credit Cards                                             
  • Childcare   
  • Waivers
  • Hiring Employees                                                      
  • Hiring Personal Trainers                                           
  • WIFI for members to use                                          
  • Lockers for your locker room                                  
  • Press Release Writing                                               
  • Marketing Checklist                                                  
  • Email Marketing                                                          
  • Website for your gym                                                
  • Google Adwords campaign creation and management                                                       
  • How to run a Grand Opening                                                   
  • Mailing List Companies                                             
  • Social Networking

If you want to know all the wrong things I did, here they are;

  • When I opened I picked the wrong location
  •  used the wrong subcontractors
  •  bought exercise equipment from the wrong people and also bought the wrong equipment
  •  finished my concrete floor with too little sealer
  •  painted some rooms the wrong colors for the right psychological effect (which you’ll learn)
  • Made the tanning bed rooms too small
  • Offered childcare when I wasn’t set up for it correctly
  • Hired the wrong employees
  • Hired the wrong personal trainers
  • Installed the wrong size air conditioner
  • Signed contracts for phone lines that I could have negotiated for a lot less
  • Used the wrong lighting
  • Got sued for $190,000 because of a contract that really didn’t exist (here’s where I made the biggest mistake in believing lady justice is blind, really justice has one eye open, and she’s looking for $$$ not justice), so learn what not to do.

I then turned my business around completely and figured out on my own what no one else would tell me, and I don’t blame them, after all, they learned the way I did.

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Shannon Cook is a marketing consultant to the fitness industry. contact Shannon for questions at shannoncook902@gmail.com